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Find a local carer –
without agency fees

Expert-led guidance to help families find, vet, and hire local carers safely and confidently.

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HERE FOR YOU

When care feels overwhelming,
we’re your steady light

Finding home care can feel urgent, confusing, and expensive.

Many families don't realise they can hire a carer themselves – safely and legally – without using an agency.

My Lighthouse shows you how, step by step.

HOW IT WORKS

Extra support,
step by step

Your journey to finding great home care.

1
Understand and create your role
Clarify your care needs and build a job advert
2
Find carers
We’ll post your job advert and make it easy for you to manage applications
3
Review & vet
Compare applicants and run safety checks
4
Hire confidently
Contracts, offers, and setup – done properly
Find a carer
WHERE WE HELP

Find care near you

We help families across East Sussex and South West London.

East Sussex

Need care in East Sussex? We help families arrange quality home care directly — without the fees that agencies charge.

Find care in East Sussex

South West London

Looking for a carer in South West London? We help local families find someone trustworthy — without going through an expensive agency.

Find care in South West London
COST OF CARE

You don’t need an agency to get care right

Plan care safely – without high commissions or loss of control.

Use our calculator to see how much you could save by employing a carer directly with My Lighthouse.

Cost calculator: an hour of care

£
An example based on typical care arrangements at £17/hr
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My Lighthouse
Employ a carer directly, without agency fees
Total hourly
cost
£19.56
Carer hourly fee£17.00
Employee benefits£2.56
Pension contribution (3%)
£0.51
Holiday pay (12.07%)
£2.05
NI contribution (with Employment Allowance)
£0
What are employment costs?
OPTION 2
Introductory agency

The agency only introduces the carer to the client. The carer acts as self-employed, meaning they are not entitled to employee benefits e.g. holiday pay, sick pay, pension contributions.

Total hourly cost
£22.10
£2.54 extra per hour
That’s £101.60 more for 40 hours of care
Carer hourly fee£17
Introductory and ongoing fees
(10-30%)
£5.10
OPTION 3
Managed care agency

Agency introduces carer to family. Carer and care plan is managed directly by the care agency with carer costs, benefits and agency fees invoiced as one.

Total hourly cost
£34.00
£14.44 extra per hour
That’s £577.60 more for 40 hours of care
Carer hourly fee£17
Introductory and ongoing fees
(60-100%)
£17

You still pay your carer directly with My Lighthouse. We simply remove the agency commission and give you expert-led tools to hire safely yourself.

WHY US

Why families choose My Lighthouse

Save thousands
No commissions or weekly agency fees
Stay in control
You choose the carer. We guide the process.
Simple & jargon-free
Clear steps, plain English
Expert-led and safe
Designed by experienced care professionals
BUILT FOR YOU

Designed for real families, by care experts

We know you want:

Clear information
Fair costs
Expert insight
Confidence that care is safe

My Lighthouse gives you the tools to own your care – with support when you need it.

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FAIR FOR EVERYONE

Fairer for carers too

  • Carers keep more of what they earn
  • Clearer expectations
  • Better working relationships

A better system benefits everyone.

FAMILY FEEDBACK

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PRICING

Transparent pricing – always

ALL COMPLETELY FREE
Your personalised guidance

Expert-led, step-by-step support to help you hire your carer – at no cost.

Access to our database of carers

Hundreds of high-quality carers looking for work across the UK.

Promotion of your listing for 3 days across multiple external sites
Wider reach, thousands quality applicants.
Optional, clearly priced services:
  • Additional days of promotion on external sites
  • Vetting and background checks

No hidden costs. Ever.

FAQs

My Lighthouse is an expert-led digital platform that helps families find, vet and hire a carer themselves, safely and confidently, without paying agency fees. We guide you step by step through the entire process, from understanding care needs to hiring and setting everything up properly.

No. Many families don’t realise they can find and hire a carer themselves. With the right guidance, it’s completely possible to arrange care without using an agency. My Lighthouse gives you the tools, structure, and expert support to do this safely and correctly.

Traditional care agencies charge ongoing fees or commission - often taking 30–50% of what you pay. My Lighthouse charges no commission and no weekly agency fees, helping families save thousands while staying in full control of care arrangements.

Families have the option to boost their hiring ads and can vet their preferred carers though our partner uCheck, but the prices are clear and fair.


Yes - when it’s done properly. My Lighthouse is built by experienced care experts to ensure families follow safe, compliant, and best-practice steps when finding and hiring a carer. We guide you through vetting, interviewing, and setting things up correctly.

My Lighthouse is for:

  • Families arranging care for elderly parents or relatives
  • People needing live-in or in-home care for themselves
  • Families unhappy with agency costs or lack of control
  • Anyone who wants a simpler, more affordable way to manage care

You don’t need prior experience - the platform is designed for first-time users.


My Lighthouse supports families looking for:

  • Live-in carers
  • Full-time or part-time in-home carers
  • Long-term care arrangements

We help you understand what type of care you need before you start searching.


No. My Lighthouse is not a care agency.

We don’t employ carers and we don’t take commission. Instead, we empower families to manage care themselves with expert guidance and clear tools.


You’re never left on your own. My Lighthouse is designed by care experts and provides:

  • Clear, step-by-step guidance throughout the process
  • Expert-designed tools and templates
  • Access to support if you have questions or need reassurance

Our goal is to make care feel manageable, not overwhelming.


Every situation is different, but My Lighthouse is designed to help families move forward efficiently and confidently, without unnecessary delays or agency bottlenecks. By breaking the process into clear steps, families often progress faster than expected.


Yes. My Lighthouse supports families across the UK who want to find and manage care independently, without agency fees.


Getting started is simple. Begin by completing your personalised care journey, and we’ll guide you step by step from there.

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You don't need to hand everything over to an agency.

With My Lighthouse, you get clarity, confidence, and control.

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East Sussex · South West London